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Have you ever thought about how important your MIND is? You know we live day by day and we never REALLY protect our head.

Ears: What you listen to

Eyes: What you look at

Nose: What you smell because scents change your mind

Mouth: What you say, how you speak . We focus so much on what we goes in our mouths but not so much on what comes out.

Romans 12:2 King James Version (KJV)

2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

Lets go through how our Head and Mind are so important to us!!

Daniel Fast 21st Day!!!

Its the last day of the Daniel Fast.. Midnight on today.. How was the fast for you? What new things have you learned about yourself? What were some of your challenges? What were some of your triumphs? 

My Experience: I started off very strong.. I was able to add my prayers in, I didn't eat any meat and really had a great time with the fast for the first 11 days.. Then my mother fell ill, she had a mild heart attack and was hospitalized for a week. After her body shut down.. I feel like I shut down as well. I had no idea how hard this was on me. All kinds of things went through my head and for the first time in my life regarding my mother I was scared. I didn't eat anything at all which caused me to get sick,  and when I did decide to eat, I couldn't keep anything down. I ended up coming off of the Daniel Fast and did not finish the full 21 days. Coming off in the sense of slowly eating the meat.. I had Chicken because it was the only meat that I could keep down after a while. I did not add in any of the sweets and all until it was closer to the end of the Fast. But non the less it was not the full 21 days. But my prayer life was stronger than ever. I learned a better way to pray, I became closer to GOD and really started speaking to him way better than I had ever spoken to him before. I owe that all to the Daniel Fast and what God can do for you in all times. In the Fast I lost 10 pounds and now I am just trying to maintain the weight lost, lose more, pray more and continue to get close to GOD.  Now Day 21 my mother is doing much better, she is mobile, laughing, talking and it is truly amazing what GOD can do.. I am so happy that God helped my mother and she is much better now. Ill spend the rest of my life trying to pay God back for loving me the way that he does and although Ill never make enough to ever pay God back for what he is doing and has done for me, I can at-least show him how thankful I am by the way i LIVE my life. It will be a constant reminder of how He didn't have to do it but he did!!! I thank him today, tomorrow and forever.. Love you GOD.. Love you MOMMY!! and I ask All to pray and continue to pray for Your family, Yourselves and Luvely Wives Club!!! 

Email Luvelywivesclub@gmail.com to talk all about the Fast!!! 

*** Benefits of Fasting ***

1. Spiritual Benefits of Fasting

• Fasting brings you closer to God
• Fasting makes you more sensitive to God’s voice
• Fasting helps break addictions
• Fasting shows us our weakness and allows us to rely on God’s strength

2. Mental & Emotional Benefits of Fasting

• Fasting relieves anxiety and nervousness
• Fasting can increase peace and shalom
• Fasting clears your mind of negative thoughts & feelings
• Fasting decreases brain fog
• Fasting helps increase your ability to trust God
• Fasting clears out toxins that can make you feel sluggish or depressed

3. Physical Benefits of Fasting

• Fasting helps break addictions to sugar
• Fasting supports the body’s detoxification
• Fasting promotes healthy weight Loss
• Fasting promoted healthy energy Levels
• Fasting improves skin health
• Fasting promotes healthy digestion and elimination
• Fasting supports healthy inflammation response and promotes joint comfort
• Fasting promotes healthy hormonal balance

The Daniel Fast - Join ME!! 21 days

I will be starting the Daniel Fast On December 1, 2016 for 21 days!! Join me if you can.. Read below for details.. Click picture @ top or the link @ the bottom for more details.. 

What is a Daniel Fast?

The Daniel Fast is a biblically based partial fast referenced in the Bible, particularly in two sections of the Book of Daniel:

• Daniel 1:12, which states, “Please test your servants for ten days, and let them give us vegetables [pulses] to eat and water to drink.”
• Daniel 10: 1-2, which says, “In those days I, Daniel, was mourning three full weeks. I ate no pleasant food, no meat or wine came into my mouth, nor did I anoint myself at all, till three whole weeks were fulfilled.”

The Daniel Fast things to do!!!

1. Avoid distractions. ...
2. Start the diet by focusing on your faith. ...
3. Pray. ...
4. Reserve time with God during the day by studying the Bible.
5. Seek the Lord diligently for the answers to your prayers.
6. Ask for God's guidance in your life.

The Daniel Fast includes many Bible foods that support healing.

Fasting is a natural discipline that can bring supernatural results.

And, Fasting works when nothing else will.

Moses, Elijah, Esther, Ezra, Job, David, Daniel, Peter, Paul even Jesus…fasted.

The Bible is filled with more than 70 references to fasting, but over the last several decades fasting has disappeared from the church and is only beginning to make a resurgence today.'

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Marketing Assistant Needed

I am looking for a marketing assistant. Someone that has some experience with Wix Websites and Blogger. Must be able to update content daily. 

Must be able to create flyer, create newsletter, business cards, Answer all inquirers about the business, edit content on the website, blog page and social media pages and other tasks.

Key Qualifications

Can Do Attitude 
Loves GOD 
Loves Marriage and Relationship
Must have a great eye for detail 
Experienced in Social Media, Website updating/Editing and Managing content
Must have a computer with internet access. 

Please email Luvelywivesclub@gmail.com if interested and Qualified with a paragraph or 2 about yourself and your interest. I am not interested in your resume. Only a paragraph or two about yourself and your goals. Name and email is fine, If I am interested I will email you for content information to speak with you by phone.

Testers Wanted

Luvely Wives Club is looking for Beta Testers to view our ECourse content.. If you are interested please email us at luvelywivesclub@gmail.com for details..

There is no cash payment to be a beta tester — all of our testers are volunteers. We cannot expect your feedback to be honest and reliable if you're being paid to give it, especially since the point of the beta test is to get unbiased and honest feedback.

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3 Signs to know.. It's time for Counseling

3 Signs to know.. Its' time for Counseling


1. You notice there is a problem in your Marriage. 

Often times we wait until we are on the verge of divorce to seek help. This is not effective. We should not wait until things are so bad to seek help. Going to your Pastor or Counselor before things get so bad is a better way to get on the road to fixing the issue. You know when something just is not right in your Marriage, so when you feel this, its time to act.


2. Communication has gotten negative.

It is hard to talk to your spouse if you two are mad at each other or are arguing. Usually one person is talking and the other person is waiting for their turn to talk. Neither of you are actually talking to hear each other and work on ways to fix the problem. If you have gotten to a place in your marriage where you are unable to communicate effectively and positively you may need a mediator that can come in and allow you both your chance to speak.Your Pastor or Counselor could provide the opportunity for you both to be heard. If you feel this is you, its time to act.

3. You think its time for divorce.

If your spouse says they want a divorce and you do not, it is definitely time to seek help. Access the situation and figure out whether you have any chance of saving your marriage. Did your spouse threaten divorce in a heated argument or have they already moved out? What has happened since your spouse said they want a divorce? At this point, thoughts are racing through your head, you noticed there were problems, you were unable to communicate with spouse, they state they want a divorce. Please seek help. At this point your Pastor or Counselor will be able to assist you two or maybe just you in an effort to save the marriage.


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I hope this helps. it is very basic, just wanted to give some ways to see that marriage counseling may be beneficial in your marriage and in many cases it will help and save the marriage. Some times we don't know that we need help, until it is too late or we do know and we are not paying attention to it, or putting it off for a later date.

Make your Marriage as important to you as it was on Day 1. Spend the necessary time in your marriage. Yes the day to day task get in the way and then there is kids and family, but remember they day to day task will always be there and Kids grown up and move out.. Then what?? Its just you and your spouse... what kind of relationship will you both have when its just the Two of you?  Think about it..

Pray and most importantly keep GOD first, he can move in ways you can never imagine.

Should Support be Required in a Marriage

I say yes.. I'm a firm believer that we are to do what is best for our Marriage. SO....Yes.. yes.. and more yes... Supporting your spouse should be done always. Spouses need support in all areas of life. I believe that your support of them will encourage them to make better decisions and make them feel that they have someone in their corner. They should feel like their spouse is the number 1 supporter... I'm a supporter all day. I know that at time I am overly supportive and have to make adjustments.. but my heart is pure and its all in Love. We should all care enough to make sure each other needs and wants are met.. we are a team and we must always remember that. EVEN when the times are Rough and we don't really agree with what our Spouse is doing.. sometimes the supportive tone and content will show your spouse and help them make a different decision.

See scripture below... God is all about this support!!
Philippians 2:5 NIV

4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.

5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:

Luvely Wives Club- Procrastination

1 year after I got married I was searching for wives in my age group that were experiencing similar things and could give me some guidance or advice into this new Marriage world. I was unable to find someone or anyone that could really help me or at that point just sit, listen and pray for and with me but on a level of a 20 something year old. So I created Luvely Wives Club because I wanted there to be a place where wives can go and talk about all areas in their marriage and life and it all be confidential and helpful. I procrastinated so much with LWC because The thought came to me in 2009 and I didn't create anything on paper until 2011, then I slowed up a little.... then started back a little stronger in 2013 then I actually stopped, cut off all of my social media pages and took a break from everything.. Then started back up again in June 2015 STRONG! Different and New.. But still focused on the same mission.

My point is I procrastinated. I allowed everything to stop me and get in my way. I did push forward as aggressive as I could have and I allowed procrastination to win!!! I say to all of you Stop Procrastinating. There could be someone out there that needs to hear from you and really need something that you are offering. 

Keep in mind that everything does not revolve around you and you have to look outside of your own self and focus on the need of the people and where you could do well. I LOVE MARRIAGE PERIOD!!! I am an advocate for it and I am an advocate for WOMEN!!! However GOD uses me I want to be used. I can’t wait to see the journey and I can surely tell you already that my journey has been filled. 

But I will say this.... If we all team together, nothing could stop us!!! So I encourage all of my sisters to push forward and try your hardest to step into your destiny, step out of your comfort zone, Stop trying to push things off until another day. DO IT TODAY!!! Anything that you may want to do!! DO IT!!! And If I can help, I mean genuinely help!! Reach out to me!! 

Remember GOD first in everything you do and always practice everything with LOVE!!! 1st Corinthians 13 all day!!! 

5 Signs Your Spouse Is Happily Married 

From http: //faithinthenews.com/5-signs-your-spouse-is-happily-married/

Here are five signs that your spouse is happily married. Maybe you can add another sign.

They Feel Appreciated and Noticed

If your spouse receives appreciation for what they do for the family and for their spouse, you can be they sure they’ll show it. One of the greatest measures of a happy marriage is that the spouse is recognized and appreciated for what they do and often hears, “Thank you. I appreciate all you do.” You brag on them in front of others and in front of the children. That’s a rock-solid sign of a happy marriage.

They’d Rather Be With Their Spouse

Sometimes I’ve turned down invitations in order to spend time with family. If a spouse is continually seeking to be with their mate, that’s a great sign for sure because you want to spend time together. If the opposite is true and the spouse spends a lot of time away from their mate, that is a warning sign for sure.

They’re Still Attracted to You

To me, my wife has become more beautiful as the years have passed. I find her still very attractive, and I tell her so. She may not feel the same about me, but when you’re attracted to your spouse and they are to you, that’s a great sign of a happy marriage, even though to me a lot of her beauty is within but not to the exclusion of her outward appearance.

They Feel Respected and Admired

Husbands feel loved when they are respected, and wives feel loved when they are cherished. Men and women have different needs but both need to feel that they’re respected and admired as a husband or wife. This respect and admiration act like glue that holds a couple together during stormy times.

He/She Treats Your Family Well

Nothing can drive a wedge between a couple more than in-laws. When the husband and wife are the priority over their parents, then this is sure evidence of a happy marriage in most cases. This may be exactly what God meant when He said, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh” (Gen. 2:24). A man should leave and cleave to his wife, that is leave his family and leave them out of personal issues within the family and cleave or cling to his wife. The wife should do the same thing, of course. When your spouse treats your parents well, I’d say this is a great sign of a happy marriage.

Conclusion

Marriage is honorable and God-ordained. Marriage takes a lot of work, and you only get out of a marriage what you put into one. I pray God richly blesses your marriage and that you will cleave to one another until death do you part.

Advice givers

Sometimes things just need to be said.. Remember even in your moments where you feel you must get something off of your chest... still have some positivity on it so i will start with I love you all and be blessed but people..... 

You cant tell someone to stop doing something a way and not give them options or advice on what to do instead...Example.. Don't drink Milk.. okay????  well what do you suggest i drink instead?.. end example.. Get it?  This is for all the folk giving half advice.. complete that advice people.. don't have people out here following your words and Empty.. Lets all do and Be better!!

Faith..Hope..Love Always

A Big Deal... My post from the past!!!

Have you had a situation where you did something and though "WOW, I should not have done that" lol.. Well I did just today. I filled out a couple of application and in one of my applications, well on the cover letter of the Application I told them that I WAS WONDERFUL.. then I sent it. Oh my goodness lol!!! It was too late. It was already sent and I couldn't do anything about it. Well Listen that's how I feel about myself and I know how my work is. I guess I just didn't want to seem arrogant, or come across even worst than that. I will see if I hear anything and If I do then I am going to post what the response was lol.... I do have a question. Is thinking highly of yourself a bad thing? My answer is NO!!! you should think highly of yourself. I was just having a conversation with my hubby around 2 am in the morning and I told him "Im definitely a big deal" lol!!! But seriously, I really do think that. IF you don't think highly of yourself, then how can you expect someone else to think highly of you. If you are always putting yourself down, then others will too... Come on people... the mouth is truly something!!!!. I hear so many people say " don't say certain things because you can speak them into existence" That just means that the more you say things they become your reality so lets change this up RIGHT NOW!!! SET YOUR REALITY... SET YOUR FUTURE..SET YOUR MIND STRAIGHT AND GET MOVING... THE TIME IS NOW!!! I hear may people do bucket list. I have never tried it before, but I am going to try it and see how much I get done. It will be fun and it will be all positive. I will keep you posted, with everything. IF YOU NEED TO TALK OR HAVE THINGS ON YOUR MIND.. NEVER, NEVER FEEL ALONE, PLEASE EMAIL ME @ LUVELYWIVESCLUB@GMAIL.COM I PROMISE... I WILL RESPOND TO EVERYONE!!! (THIS IS A NO JUDGEMENT ZONE) Till Later Loves

Raise your hand to the Lord

Has there every been a situation in your life when you feel you've had enough? Does it feel like you are all alone in your Marriage even though your spouse is right there? Raise your hands to the lord. Cast all of your worries to God. Pray about everything and worry about nothing. You are not alone.. We have to know that we are not alone and we can not expect our spouses to understand everything the way that we understand it.. Its just not possible. Please pray.. Ask God for what you need... Stand still and wait on a response. I get lot of messages about marriage and different situations within the Marriage...but the best advice that I can give you especially without knowing the details of your situation is just that.. Pray...Stand still and Wait..

P.s... No one will ever make you feel the way that God will make you feel. Gain understanding in what you believe and your life will truly change..

Till later Loves 💕

Effect and Affect

Have you ever made a decision that effected and affected your Marriage, Family and Home? Well I did just that the other day.,.Have you ever felt like you were sinking and needed to come up for air... Well come up completely and out of the water lol... Well I experienced that the other day as well. I have felt for about the past year that I needed a change. I didn't know what the change was but I know I needed something to change. I kept thinking about how it affect things and what the effect would be on my life. I remember going to my mother in laws women group " Sisters n Christ" in sept of 2015. I received a word from Apostle Paula Greene about a change that was going to happen in my life.. She gave ME details of this change.. Now fast forward to Jan 2016 and the change happened.. I knew it was God because it was specific to what Apostle had told me.. But I couldnt help but let my flesh come in and tell me about the huge change that I was going to make.. And how it could effect and affect my Marriage..Family.. And home... It took me a couple of days to really stand on the Word that was given to me knowing that it was God .. I did and now I'm moving in a different direction.. I am not sure where it will take me.. But I will keep you posted with the progress.. Sometimes decisions are hard to make because it changes soooo much of your life.. I needed to come up and breath...and be me... And really focus on Me.. Things... Luvely wives club is one of the Me things that I focus on.. Hubby.. Kiddies. Home.. Of course everyday.. But ladies ...please take some time out to focus on the YOU things... I was just blessed and fortunate enough to have an encounter with God through Apostle so that I could make a big decision..

Updates to follow..

Till later loves 💕

Raise your hands to the Lord

Has there every been a situation in your life when you feel you've had enough? Does it feel like you are all alone in your Marriage even though your spouse is right there? Raise your hands to the lord. Cast all of your worries to God. Pray about everything and worry about nothing. You are not alone.. We have to know that we are not alone and we can not expect our spouses to understand everything the way that we understand it.. Its just not possible. Please pray.. Ask God for what you need... Stand still and wait on a response. I get lot of messages about marriage and different situations within the Marriage...but the best advice that I can give you especially without knowing the details of your situation is just that.. Pray...Stand still and Wait..

P.s... No one will ever make you feel the way that God will make you feel. Gain understanding in what you believe and your life will truly change..

Till later Loves 💕

Keep your Faith

A friend of mine send me this video.. It was amazing to hear. I thank GOD for sending me something that could help me while I pray over my and all marriages. There is so much going on in the Marriage world and as the Wives, I want us to pray constantly over our marriages. Check out the Video.. I hope it could be as much of a blessing to you as it has been to me. Please continue with me in uplifting and praying over Marriages today.

Steve Harvey using Joel Osteen Advice

Being Challenged.. In the Marriage

As I start off the new year, there is much that I am thankful for. I could write a list that could be pages long. I have such a huge happiness and I know it is all because of GOD.. Have you ever been challenged before and failed in your Marriage? Have you ever been pushed to the limit that you could not control yourself, (anger). How did you handle it? Well I experienced that the other day as a wife. I was so mad at myself because I let my husband's words get me so mad that I was unable to control myself. I do know that husbands have issues and stress and sometimes something little that they may say to you, could explode into something big.  but I always feel that you as the wife should be able to to control what you say BACK to them.. and this is where I failed that the other day. I have to forgive myself because for me, I am very hard on myself and I will beat myself up for weeks over things. ON the other hand I was very disappointed at my hubby because of how he views me. There was a situation at the house that broke my heart. I really thought that my husband had made this huge sacrifice and I wanted to let him know that while I appreciate the sacrifice, I don't want him to go without ever.. We will work through everything and make decisions as a team. There could have been so much that I could have not gotten to make sure he had what he needed.... Well...... Sigh!!! He turned that thing around so fast I could have got whiplash.. I remember turning around in the car as he was talking to see if he was talking to someone else or playing.. I must be honest y'all.. I thought he was playing.. but then I saw that he was very serious.. I instantly got mad.. and that was all she wrote.. The way I should have acted was not the way that I acted and for that I must say that I failed this test. I was suppose to be silent.. something that I have grown very good at doing and let him state what he felt and move on from the situation but old Tasha.. came back in and whoa.. she can really talk.. Keeping in mind Wives that it is truly hard when you are hurt or angry from something to sit there and be silent. Back to the prayer room I go but I know GOD has to tell me about myself and that is actually what he did. It does not matter how my husband acted, I should have acted differently. I could give so many reasons on why I think he was wrong, but the bottom line is that I was wrong and I have to acknowledge that I should have just kept my mouth shut and I didn't.. Another lesson learned and another test that I'll have to start all over again to complete. Well Thank GOD for life.. I tell you.. I LOVE the life I live and the things I must go through..

P.S.. I still have an amazing husband.. Sometimes GOD allows things to happen to see how you will react to them..

Till Later Loves..  Remember practice everything with Love.. 1st Corinthians 13