Luvely Wives Club- Procrastination

1 year after I got married I was searching for wives in my age group that were experiencing similar things and could give me some guidance or advice into this new Marriage world. I was unable to find someone or anyone that could really help me or at that point just sit, listen and pray for and with me but on a level of a 20 something year old. So I created Luvely Wives Club because I wanted there to be a place where wives can go and talk about all areas in their marriage and life and it all be confidential and helpful. I procrastinated so much with LWC because The thought came to me in 2009 and I didn't create anything on paper until 2011, then I slowed up a little.... then started back a little stronger in 2013 then I actually stopped, cut off all of my social media pages and took a break from everything.. Then started back up again in June 2015 STRONG! Different and New.. But still focused on the same mission.

My point is I procrastinated. I allowed everything to stop me and get in my way. I did push forward as aggressive as I could have and I allowed procrastination to win!!! I say to all of you Stop Procrastinating. There could be someone out there that needs to hear from you and really need something that you are offering. 

Keep in mind that everything does not revolve around you and you have to look outside of your own self and focus on the need of the people and where you could do well. I LOVE MARRIAGE PERIOD!!! I am an advocate for it and I am an advocate for WOMEN!!! However GOD uses me I want to be used. I can’t wait to see the journey and I can surely tell you already that my journey has been filled. 

But I will say this.... If we all team together, nothing could stop us!!! So I encourage all of my sisters to push forward and try your hardest to step into your destiny, step out of your comfort zone, Stop trying to push things off until another day. DO IT TODAY!!! Anything that you may want to do!! DO IT!!! And If I can help, I mean genuinely help!! Reach out to me!! 

Remember GOD first in everything you do and always practice everything with LOVE!!! 1st Corinthians 13 all day!!! 

5 Signs Your Spouse Is Happily Married 

From http: //faithinthenews.com/5-signs-your-spouse-is-happily-married/

Here are five signs that your spouse is happily married. Maybe you can add another sign.

They Feel Appreciated and Noticed

If your spouse receives appreciation for what they do for the family and for their spouse, you can be they sure they’ll show it. One of the greatest measures of a happy marriage is that the spouse is recognized and appreciated for what they do and often hears, “Thank you. I appreciate all you do.” You brag on them in front of others and in front of the children. That’s a rock-solid sign of a happy marriage.

They’d Rather Be With Their Spouse

Sometimes I’ve turned down invitations in order to spend time with family. If a spouse is continually seeking to be with their mate, that’s a great sign for sure because you want to spend time together. If the opposite is true and the spouse spends a lot of time away from their mate, that is a warning sign for sure.

They’re Still Attracted to You

To me, my wife has become more beautiful as the years have passed. I find her still very attractive, and I tell her so. She may not feel the same about me, but when you’re attracted to your spouse and they are to you, that’s a great sign of a happy marriage, even though to me a lot of her beauty is within but not to the exclusion of her outward appearance.

They Feel Respected and Admired

Husbands feel loved when they are respected, and wives feel loved when they are cherished. Men and women have different needs but both need to feel that they’re respected and admired as a husband or wife. This respect and admiration act like glue that holds a couple together during stormy times.

He/She Treats Your Family Well

Nothing can drive a wedge between a couple more than in-laws. When the husband and wife are the priority over their parents, then this is sure evidence of a happy marriage in most cases. This may be exactly what God meant when He said, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh” (Gen. 2:24). A man should leave and cleave to his wife, that is leave his family and leave them out of personal issues within the family and cleave or cling to his wife. The wife should do the same thing, of course. When your spouse treats your parents well, I’d say this is a great sign of a happy marriage.

Conclusion

Marriage is honorable and God-ordained. Marriage takes a lot of work, and you only get out of a marriage what you put into one. I pray God richly blesses your marriage and that you will cleave to one another until death do you part.