10 Day Thank you Spouse Challenge DETAILS!!

Details of the challenge!!! PLEASE READ!!!

Do you tell your spouse that you are thankful for them? Do you find ways to show how thankful you are that GOD allowed your spouse into your life? Why did you choose your spouse? What qualities did you see in your spouse that made you say yes I will marry you?

This is what this challenge is about!!! It is 10 days to bring the THANK YOU back into your Marriage or continue the THANK YOU

THE CHALLENGE

I challenge you to comment on the Luvely Wives Club Instagram or Facebook page each day under the thank-you spouse challenge picture one thing that you are thankful about concerning your spouse. You must complete the day regardless of how you feel about your spouse that day, SO YES!!! even if they make you mad, or get on your nerves etc. The key is to push through that and to say something about your spouse that you are Thankful for. I will join in with you each day in the challenge. YOU MUST FINISH THE CHALLENGE. Each day I will check to see who has posted and what they said. I will keep notes on each person as well and at the end of the challenge I am going to give away a very nice gift!!!

Added Challenge for a different gift drawing.. IF YOU TAG YOUR SPOUSE in the post each day you will be added into a different drawing for a gift that will truly be romantic for you and your spouse.

SO TWO CHALLENGES..

1. POST ABOUT SPOUSE UNDER CHALLENGE PIC EACH DAY FOR 10 DAYS

2. POST ABOUT SPOUSE UNDER CHALLENGE PIC EACH DAY FOR 10 DAYS AND TAG SPOUSE IN IT. (If your spouse is not on Facebook or Instagram you can send him a text with the info but you must screenshot the text and send it to luvelywivesclub email. just your words nothing else.. this way we can see that you sent the message to him.

This is all in fun and to say to your spouse thank you for all that you do and are to me and I want to tell you this each day for 10 days.. My hopes is that you all continue to do this and start to show or continue to show your spouse just how wonderful they are to you.     

There will be prizes!!! and most of all you get to LOVE on your spouse for 10 days a little extra then the daily love you give!!! 

Husband and Wife Role

Have you ever really read these scriptures to get a good understanding of what God said about marriage.

I posted this today because I want you to dwell on these words and see instructions on how God envisioned husband and wives roles.

Everything More and Nothing Less!! 

Ephesians 5

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 

For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 

Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, 

cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,

and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.

In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 

After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of his body.

“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 

However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Ephesians 5:21‭-‬33 NIV

http://bible.com/111/eph.5.21-33.NIV

Marriage on the Move!!

Do you remember how it felt when you first got married? How about your marriage day, was this one of the best days of your life? Did you live in the moment and did you feel the way this women feels running with her husband on the beach. (Well the way we think she feels)Look at her face, see how big her smile is, do you remember when you smiled this big? Do you smile this big now? 

Yes Marriage goes through its changes. I hear from many women that the feelings that they have now are not the same as when they first got married. I say Rightfully so because feelings change as time goes bye. This is not necessary a bad thing, its all about the direction your marriage is going. Are those feelings different in a negative way or different in a positive way... Think about it... NOW I asked you all.. What are you doing to get those good feelings back or to keep those good feeling going? We are in relationships Ladies!!! and deeper than relationships we are in marriages. We must continue to work at the marriage day by day and not rely on our husbands to make us FEEL a certain way all of the time. Take charge and take control of the issues in your marriage and make the changes necessary. Get back those feeling that you use to feel or work on keeping the feelings that you currently have strong!!! 

If I were to ask your spouse what kind of wife are you, what would he say? Think about this, What kind of wife are you? This could answer the question as to what changes need to be made on your behalf or what needs to stay the same. 

I titled this Marriage on the MOVE because the key is that your marriage should be moving...it should be moving forward. Your marriage shouldn't be the same as it was when you first got marriage, those feelings should be stronger and you should be wiser. Environments should change, attitudes should change, Even friendships MAY have to change. Get your marriage back on track and get your marriage on the MOVE..

I encourage you Wives.. Make your marriage important. Make the changes that need to be made without looking for your husband to help. I often hear it takes two but I believe one will do especially when you are working with GOD. He may not want to work on the marriage or make any changes, that's not right, but its okay for NOW.. We stand firm on the belief that GOD can do all things and he will never fail us. SO why are we not believing that now?! 

I leave you with 1st Corinthians 7:14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife. Dwell on this, pray on this and MOVE with GOD for your MARRIAGE

MOVE... WIVES... MOVE!!